"The following questions are not rhetorical: Is it wrong if -- in the minds of the leaders -- the people who are doing those things are just considered weaker brethren? Are you suggesting those people should be disciplined?"
First there needs to be an understanding of Romans 14, I Cor 6:12, 10:23. We cant really make a determination of who is weaker and who is stronger based on what liberties are being taken, but we can determine, according to the Word, what is a liberty and what is a sin.
A liberty is not sin. However, it is possible for liberties we take to lead to sin, which then must be dealt with according to Mat 18. So, careful scrutiny needs to be given to those things, each on an individual basis. If they are not sins, then you cannot deal with them as if they are.
Let's use a sport for instance. Soccer isn't bad. It's just kicking around a ball. But if playing soccer becomes an obsession and takes precedence over fellowship and ministry, we have a problem. Moreover, playing soccer can lead to other sinful acts, coarse language, drinking, an overly competitive attitude, a lust for violence.
The main message of Romans 14 is not the promotion OR prohibition of liberties, but that we are not to judge or condemn one that takes a liberty and we are not to despise or show contempt towards one who will not take a liberty.
So it would not be right for the leadership to mandate a no soccer rule and then enforce it by punishing anyone who would play soccer. But if someone got into trouble as a result of soccer (most likely a Canadian), the leadership should work with him (discipline of Matthew 18) and lead him to repent of the sin that resulted from his liberty.
Repentance means more than just feeling sorry that you sinned, it involves seeing the sin as God sees it, hating that sin, turning away from sin and a staying away from that particular sin, not going back to revisit or toy with it. So maybe for this poor guy who sinned by assaulting another soccer player in a bar after the game, it would be best if he stayed away from soccer altogether, and it would be wise for those giving him counsel to make that recommendation to help him in his repentence.
I feel like I took up a lot of space but said very little. At least I tried. Tell me what you think
