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My apologies for the length of this post.

I was a member of this church for 10 years.
First of all, the churchs doctrine and most of their customs are two different things entirely.

The doctrine can be found by following a link at the bottom of this page for the Apostolic Christian Church of America. (I assume this is the one youre referring to?)

The customs or traditions are quite honestly based more on age old practices of this church more so than Scripture itself. For example, the veils and headcoverings the women wear, skirts instead of pants, no jewelry, hair styles for the women etc.
Now while I agree that the Word instructs us on the importance of modesty (which is where most of the traditions concerning womens appearance in this church stem), I do not feel that this means that we should look or feel unattractive (which was exactly how I felt most of the time).

The makeup issue: There is certainly a difference between wearing a light foundation to even ones skin tone, a little mascara, and some lip balm/lipstick and painting on a lot of heavy make up. I dont think that there is anything wrong with us wanting to look our best as long as its with the right attitude which is always the key with such matters. I sincerely hope that no one there would consider you a harlot for wearing a little makeup, as the focus should be on coming together in the praise and worship of the Lord.

The jewelry issue: Members of the ACCA church, for the most part, do not wear jewelry. This is taken from Scripture (ex: 2 Timothy 2:9) stating: I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes. Unfortunately, this is not an all or nothing rule there as you will most likely not see wedding rings, earrings, necklaces, etc., but you will find gold watches, brooches, cuff links, or tie clips. I dont have a good explanation for you as to why there is this inconsistency and it was an area of confusion for me, but just so youre prepared. Personally, I feel uncomfortable not wearing my wedding ring in public. It makes me feel unprepared for the assumption I present to others as to my status especially when I have my daughters with me.

The no pants thing: This custom is from Scripture indicating that women should not adorn themselves in mens clothing. However, its possible to interpret that many different ways. You indicated that you were OK with this since you wear skirts to church anyway. Well, depending on just which ACCA church you are currently attending, be prepared that the skirt wearing may be an expected practice for you outside of attending church as well. This is a huge commitment (especially if you dont particularly like to wear them all the time, or you live in a not so warm climate totally impractical!) Now, I dont want to color your viewpoint here, but if I can just give you a personal testimony concerning this particular tradition. My brother and his family were also once members of the AC church. He is a man who loves his Lord wholeheartedly and is actively trying to win more souls for Christ. He had a desire to teach Sunday school and applied to do this a few times. Finally, after being rejected yet again, the elder was forthcoming with him and told him that the reason he was not deemed eligible was due to the fact that his wife was seen entering our local Wal-Mart in a pair of jeans and was this the type of message that his family wanted to send? Needless to say, his family is now serving the Lord elsewhere.

I am not trying to dissuade you from serving God here if He is leading you to do so, but I do feel that you should be educated in what you might be facing there.

I pray that the Lord provides you the wisdom to discern where He is calling you to serve!